Change.

When choices are placed before us, the right one is usually the hard one. And sometimes not only is it hard, it's extremely difficult. People could get hurt, including ourselves. But what are we going to do? You see that there has to be a change and if you don't make it happen, then it won't. Something needs to happen, make it. Don't wait and hope that change will happen on its own. Take charge and control the outcome.